This Is What You're Anger is Really About, & Why It's Time to Heal It.

If you're feeling anger bubbling up "out of nowhere" this week, I'm not surprised with so much going on in Aries having to do with healing the wounds of self that have kept us out of balance within and in our relationships.

This astrology is about healing, and when we begin to heal, all the emotions, including repressed anger, can begin surfacing.

The thing is, it's hurting you and your relationships, keeping you from the love you want. 

​Here's why:

When women don't assert themselves and stand in their power and inner authority when it counts.... ....ANGER can have a habit of bubbling up and spilling out ALMOST EVERYWHERE EXCEPT where it is actually needed & appropriate...................IN THE RELATIONSHIP WHERE YOU ARE SUPPRESSING YOURSELF & YOUR TRUTH.

And it’s hurting your relationship.  It’s creating distance when what you really want is more closeness and more understanding.

This happens because you've been trading in your AUTHENTICITY, AUTHORITY, & PERSONAL POWER for a (likely false) sense of security.

You have been repeatedly denying yourself, stuffing down your truth.  You've been abandoning yourself.

You've been TAMPING DOWN YOUR SOUL.

Somehow, in your world, being yourself and being in a harmonious relationship became mutually exclusive, and you're the one that took the hit.  And deep down, it's painful - almost intolerable.  

Your CONFLICT AVOIDANCE might cause more than anger out of nowhere too - it might be the root cause of anxiety and depression.

It erodes your self-respect, dignity, self-value, and confidence.

The result is this constant frustration, resentment, and irritation that ends up erupting into "out of nowhere" anger, but it's displaced.  

It's also been stuffed down so long that you've turned it inward on yourself.  

You didn't have a choice - since you felt you didn't have the right to express it (or maybe the right to it at all), it had nowhere else to go.

Anger is the emotion we feel when something isn't okay with us.  It's the emotion that prepares our system to protect itself.

Often, our anger is closely tied to real or perceived boundary violations.  It also comes up instinctively when we feel we are being treated unfairly.  But if we were punished when we express that natural anger, when we self assert, when we speak up, we end up stuck in a very painful cycle that’s harmful to our psyches, our dignity, our self-respect, and our relationships.  As within, so without.  

With the north node of destiny in soul growth in Aries, determining the themes of our eclipses, since mid-July 2023, going all the way til January 2025, over 2024, if you’ve been doing this, it’s going to get harder and harder to suppress yourself, because soul is calling you to clean up those old unhealthy relationship patterns and dynamics and step into your truth and authenticity. 
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The good news is, I have a blueprint for moving you out of this cycle so you can start creating the love and relationships you want and create a next chapter of life that's authentic, soul-aligned, and extraordinarily fulfilling, and I'd love to share it with you

If this sounds good to you, let's chat!  Just CLICK HERE to message me and we'll find a time that works for both of us to hop on a call.