Understanding how energies at play affect you and your special person is one way you step into a new level of love and relationship.

Over May 29th & 30th, we had another round of X class solar flares - a geomagnetic storm. The strongest period of this was mid-May - but really the entire first half of May was characterized by X class flares.

These are hard on our systems, and if we don't understand that energy is coming from our environment and affecting all of us, it's real easy to feel like it's us, or someone close to us.

Here you are in the body, and the body is your biological vehicle for this life. And that's a really beautiful thing, because your body is the instrument your spirit uses to take inspiration from source and make it real on the earth plane - in this 3D reality.

Your soul has its own unique essence, and your soul in this life has its own unique energetic blueprint. (We can see it in our soul map - your astrological chart, we can access it through the Akashic Records; we can dive in and interface directly with your subconscious and all the information and insight it holds through hypnosis.).

When we get your unique essence broadcasting purely and clearly through your body, getting your unique "heart-sun" shining bright, then you become magnetic to what, and who, is soul-aligned for you, in the most positive expression.

But what happens is, as we move through this human life, that pure soul essence can get clogged up with limiting ideas and beliefs about how life is and how the world is and who we are and what is possible.

Think of it this way - your mind is part of your body's nervous system, and your body's nervous system is part of the biological vessel, and its job is to keep you safe. This is how we evolved. And it's exactly how we get stuck in "survival mode," a place where we are disempowered from co-creating our experience.

This is also how generational limiting beliefs that come from ancestral trauma get passed down through our lineages and we end up becoming the "contract workers" for our family lines, healing ourselves in order to heal the lineage both forward and backward. Remember - it's all happening right now in the present from a quantum perspective, and we get to use that to our advantage!

We access SOUL-ALIGNED LOVE with the realization that the nervous system will always choose safety for us first, and that is an automatic response, but the mind is actually a tool in service to the heart, in service to the soul, that we can use to co-create our desired experience.

It's only a matter of clearing out what's clogging that pure and unique soul expression - clearing out the stuff you've taken on about yourself and relationships and love and life that is actually not true at all, so you your vibration is free to rise to align with the love your heart so desires.

It's really just one simple shift, like energetically taking off a big heavy coat you've been wearing for way too long when it's way too warm. The coat feels familiar, it feels safe even and protective, but it's really getting too hot to wear it and it is becoming more of a burden than a help to you.

When you take off the coat, you may feel suddenly exposed and uncomfortable, like when spring hits and you wear shorts or flip flops for the first time in months after wearing layers and boots all winter. The sensation of air and sunlight on your skin feels unfamiliar at first. It may feel like freedom, but you may feel a little exposed and underdressed at the same time.

It's the same way when we drop those old, familiar ideas that are actually limiting us and step into a new dimension and start operating from a soul level. We may feel a little exposed and vulnerable, and that's okay. We may take a little longer to make the shift, or bounce back and forth between the two different dimensions for a while before getting into the new, the soul-aligned, and being able to hold it.

But when we do, it's pure magic, because that's when you start doing love and relationships from that new place too, and that's when things start getting unbelievably good.

Like attracts like, always. It is always working just like gravity. And that's great news, because that means you can start co-creating to get the love you want because now you know that the only thing you need to shift is your energy within, and that's actually the only place you have power and authority anyway.

In the old reality, the old programming and conditioning in your subconscious was your point of attraction.
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In the new reality, you are stepping into your full power to co-create your experience through soul-alignment!

Tomorrow, Thursday 5/23, we have a powerful Sagittarius full moon aligning with Pluto and Venus conjunct Jupiter in Taurus aligning with magical Neptune. This is a growth, expansion, faith, belief, abundance, and luck-filled full moon.

As the lunar climax of both this month and the past six months (since the Sag new moon on December 12th), this moment brings what we've been working on to fruition. Late March through April, you experienced a self and perception "remodel" to align with this energy. Just think of how far you've come since the beginning of this "8" year!

Back on 12/12, the Sag new moon supported us in visualizing a better way to move toward our desires. What has transpired for you since then? Where are you now compared to six months ago? What is coming to fruition?

Now, get ready to receive.

Check in with your nervous system as you move through this week and weekend. Can it truly be safe to get what you want? We often work and wish for things but forget to prepare ourselves to allow, receive, and hold them. When our good arrives, we might snap into default mode and lock up. This is why things start coming in and then seem to just go away.

Pay attention to your body and what's happening within. Start holding space for the part that might fear being successful, abundant, or truly loved because somehow it doesn't feel safe. This is called "upper limiting." To overcome it, create safety within your nervous system and body, and tend to those parts that might still be fearful.

Your nervous system has different states:

• Ventral: You feel safe and empowered—your "creatrix" state.
• Sympathetic: Fight/flight mode—remind yourself it's safe to slow down.
• Dorsal: Fawn/freeze mode—remind yourself it's safe to take baby steps towards your goals and desires.

Even "over joy" or "over excitement" can cause nervous system dysregulation. During times of great change and expansion, grounding and connecting with the earth and yourself are crucial.
 Embrace this powerful full moon energy, and prepare to receive the abundance and love you've been working towards!

The ability to be able to "hold more good" in our lives - like the love our hearts so deeply desire - is something we develop with practice.

We are creative beings, and if we want to live bigger, more expansive lives, with more of what we want, we need to stretch ourselves.

As we take bold steps towards our heart's desires like more love and abundance, we inevitably run up against inner blocks and upper limits - it's natural.

The question is, do we have the tools and skills to move through it when it comes up?

Can you truly receive the love you are desiring and calling in?

So many times we are so focused on trying to get there that we get thrown for a loop when we arrive - or when It finally arrives in our lives.

The best thing ever has just shown up in our lives and suddenly "all the things" are coming up and we're a mess.

We might find ourselves adrift in a sea of fear and doubt, running old patterns, not trusting, anxious, insecure, and feeling powerless to make it stop, thinking, "this is not the way this was supposed to go."

It doesn't mean anything bad is happening or disaster is about to strike. There are just parts deep within you who aren't 100% sure that getting what you want is entirely safe, and they are trying to keep you safe. They just need your loving attention and reassurance.

Many times when this happens we end up dismissing those parts and trying to charge ahead, but that actually makes things worse and keeps the resistance and contraction going. We know that it's not logical, the way we are feeling, so we try to use logic on it, but that will never make it feel better. You have to speak to the body itself and let it know it's okay in its own language.

If you want more love, there is only one answer: more love - and it begins with loving up those parts of you that are feeling uncertain about the new and expanding into a place they haven't ever known before.

The true intimacy and connection you want is on the other side of your conflict avoidance.

Right now, Mars in Aries is passing by the north node of soul growth, giving you the courage and motivation you need to cut ties with limiting relationship patterns of the past like over-giving and people-pleasing and stepping into your truth and authenticity.

Fear will shrink your world and imprison you. The medicine is courage.

Courage comes from the heart, from the "cor," Latin for heart.

When you are courageous, you have heart, and that's a beautiful thing - one of the most beautiful things in life, because you are quite literally living "from the heart," and that's when really beautiful things happen.

Courage is authenticity. Courage is truth. Courage is liberation. Courage is self-value. Courage is kindness. Courage is boundaries. Courage is intimacy. Courage is true love.

If you are a woman in midlife ready for SOUL-ALIGNED LOVE, you are a woman ready to live and love from the heart - to live and love courageously.

It's time to come home to yourself, reclaim the throne of your heart, and step into the love and life you deeply desire.

The May 7th/8th new moon in Taurus was in sextile (60 degree "opportunity" aspect) to Saturn in Pisces.  This makes for an even more auspicious new beginning in Taurus for 2024, amplified by the presence of Venus, Jupiter, and Uranus all in Taurus along with the sun.

This is a good thing, because Saturn's supportive input to the Taurus new moon means we are getting help making things real in our lives.  Pisces is the sign of ideals and dreams, while Taurus is the sign of material security, enjoying life through the five senses, resources, and earthly abundance. ​

Taurus is the Venus-ruled realm of earthly abundance, and Venus is associated with the Empress in the Tarot.  Venus rules the Divine Feminine and attraction - the law of attraction - how we align energetically with our desires to attract and receive them.