In 2024, the Way to Better Relationships is Stepping More Into Yourself.

This year, self-actualization and individualization is sexy, it is hot, and it's actually the number one thing you can do to improve the relationship you already have or attract in the high vibe soul-aligned relationship your heart desires.

Authenticity in your relationships is always a good move, but in 2024, the cosmos is really applying the pressure around this topic for two reasons:  1.  this year is an "8" year numerologically, and "8" years are years when abundance in all areas of our lives is available to us, but to access it we have to step into our power and personal responsibility and claim it, and 2.  the north node of soul growth and what we are moving towards (think:  future and destiny) is in Aries, the sign of self, and this means the overarching theme this year is a karmic rebalancing of relationships - of the "me" and "we" in our lives.

The spring and fall eclipses will be the really big defining moments around this - you've already experienced our first round of eclipses March 25th and April 8th - what came up (or blew up) in your relationships over late March and April?  That's a big clue to how this is landing in your life.

Here's what is happening on a deeper level all of 2024:  the north node of soul growth in Aries is pulling you towards a healthier sense of self, self-expression, and self-assertion.  It's pulling you towards a stronger sense of individuality.  As this happens, it brings up any unhealthy patterns in relationships that have to go in order for you to move into this new way of being.  

This is because north node of the moon has an opposite point - the south node - and while the north node is moving through Aries, the sign of self, all year long, the south node is moving through Libra, sign of other.  Aries and Libra make up the relationship axis of the zodiac.  The north node is our point of increase, and the south node is our point of decrease and release -it's also the past, karma, and the shadow.  In order to move towards the north node, we must move away from the south node.  

That means 2024 is a year of karmic rebalancing of relationships in our lives - of rebalancing the "me" and the "we."  

The way you may have experienced this, especially over late March and April, is relationship issues coming to the surface.  If you tend to give yourself up in relationships, if you tend to lose yourself in relationships, if you have any tendencies towards enmeshment or codependency or insecure attachment you've picked up along the way in life, the Universe is reminding you that this is not you on a soul level.  This is not who you are deep down, it's just a behavior pattern you've learned, and it's time to come back to the truth of who you are.

The thing is, in the end, this will only strengthen your relationships.  It will allow them to become even more authentic and fulfilling.  

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Hi, I'm Kasey, Soul-Aligned Love Mentor to women. 

I help women in midlife make a quantum leap in love and relationships so they can start getting the love they've been desiring.

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