Embrace This Hard Truth To Free Yourself From the Spell That's Keeping You Stuck & Start Getting the Love & Abundance You Want.
This Monday brings the "aha moment" of Mercury retrograde in Taurus and the deep jolt of Pluto shifting into reverse as Friday's Scorpio full moon eclipse looms large.
The time to come to terms with what we really value and desire and what's actually standing in our way that we need to once and for all release has arrived, and it's happening whether we are on board or not.
Embrace this truth to release yourself from the spell keeping you stuck and start getting the love and abundance you've been longing for in life.
Hard truth: "I can't get what I want/need" is a red flag statement that means you are not in your power.
You read that right. I wasn't joking when I said it was a hard truth, but it's an important truth, and one that will indeed set you free - if and when you embrace it. This is the kind of truth that stings a little, but ultimately will unlock so much power for you.
Let me explain.
You are the only one keeping yourself from getting what you want or need.
You have the power. You've always had it. But you continue to hold away from yourself that which you long for, and that's part of the reason it's so frustratingly painful.
Simple. There's a very old subconscious program running in you that says "I can't get what I want and need."
When I say subconscious, I mean below the surface of your conscious awareness. You don't realize that's what is going on - you only keep experiencing the results in your life over and over. And because you don't realize this is subconscious programming at play, you come to conclusions like "that's just the way the world is," and "that's just the way life is," and "that's just the way it is."
This subconscious programming may be tied to other additional limiting beliefs about yourself, such as "I'm not good enough," and/or about the world and life in general, like "life is hard and then you die."
This might even be compounded by a deep (and again subconscious) fear of punishment or retribution if you happen to get caught ever getting and enjoying that which you believe yourself to be so unworthy. Or maybe it's more about being rejected and abandoned. Maybe the limiting belief says, "no good deed goes unpunished," or "it's lonely at the top." Maybe there's some resistance because of a deeply held belief of not outshining siblings or being more successful than your parents. Or maybe it's a belief that ultimately, being successful, happy, supported, and enjoying life will somehow make you a target, or you will lose friends and loved ones.
Yet, consciously, you truly want what you want, and you can't see any logical reason why you shouldn't have it, and so you keep working towards it, and keep find yourself stuck in the same loop of never quite getting there.
Because you're caught in the double bind, under the spell of the subconscious beliefs.
So let's dive into this a little more deeply.
It's all energy. Energy is all there is.
The energy of lack and withholding is the same energy, no matter what we are talking about.
And as I said before, you are the one in charge. You are the one with the power, and you are the only one keeping yourself from what you want or need.
But here's the deal: your beliefs, and especially those subconscious ones that live and operate below the surface of your conscious awareness, are what create the energetic prism that you live life through. As within, so without. Whatever's going on in your inner realm, whether you are aware of it or not, is what's going to be reflected in your outer experience of life.
So that belief of "I can't get what I want," or "I can't get my needs met," and all of the other ones that are woven in with it is what is creating your thoughts, your emotions, your energetic vibration, and the experience of life you live every single day.
And it will remain that way until you dig in deep and shift those beliefs, thus giving your energetic prism a new vibration.
This is why this truth is such a hard pill to swallow. Since you aren't consciously aware of this belief and how it works beneath the surface of your consciousness, it's running the show, and you are unwittingly giving your power away to it every day, feeling helpless and disempowered to change the "don't wants" you see in your life.
You may be focused on relationships or money, or more likely the lack thereof, but to your being, needs met or unmet are all the same - it's the same energy. And it's the same story - the block, the resistance, the stuckness - it's inside of you, and you have the power to change it.
So what else are you withholding from yourself?
Let's take a look at how this belief can play out in every day life.
There's something else that can get us tripped up that I want to mention here too, although I haven't covered all of the multitudes of possibilities that can play out in our lives.
Sometimes it's not just beliefs, but intertwined with them might be unresolved trauma from childhood and/or some sort of decision or vow we made way back then while in great distress. These are strong and take willingness to really do deep work to heal and neutralize.
When something big happens that we couldn't stop, on top of the trauma, we may have also decided something beyond a limiting belief like "no one loves me," beyond the betrayal trauma or broken trust, that goes something like "this isn't okay, and it's never going to be okay - I'm never going to let this be okay."
Of course there are many different versions of this, but my point is that it's not really a belief, but it's a vow that went along with the limiting beliefs when they were formed.
And a vow like this can absolutely be working beneath the surface of your consciousness and sabotaging your efforts to experience all the things you want in life.
Because not letting thing be okay is not letting yourself be okay, and if that isn't neutralized and remains active, you are always going to run up against the internal conflict.
You are going to have to decide to be okay. You're going to have to let it go. Whatever part of you, deep inside, is still holding out for justice or some sort of reparation, it has to let that go. It has to let go so you can heal and finally move on. And that might mean truly grieving what happened, what never was, what was lost - anything and everything that needs to be grieved.
This is the power of your subconscious mind and the beliefs we hold, and the best part is, now that you know this, you have the power to change it.
You've simply been running on default under the spell of the limiting beliefs that stuck in your subconscious somewhere along the way in life.
The moment you decide that you can and do get what you want and need, and that you're okay, is the moment when everything changes. It's the moment when you start getting the love and abundance you want in life - when you suddenly find yourself getting all those elusive needs and wants met and living the life you've been longing.
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